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Joe Bruzzese, in his blog at www.thinking-forward.com , notes that he’s trying something new in the New Year. He will reserve Thursdays for posts about thriving in middle school.
Visit his blog for information about education, goal setting, middle school, high school, mentors, parenting and much much more.
He has created an 11-page downloadable book about succeeding in middle school. Confidence, connection and challenge, he says, are the three C’s that lead parents and kids past survival mode and into a thriving mindset.
Bruzzese writes:
Saying Goodbye to Sundaes, tells a story about thriving in middle school. You can download it here as a free ebook.
When asked, most people believe confidence comes from succeeding in the face of challenge. It’s our belief about the potential for success in the future. The more often we succeed the greater our confidence grows.
Scoring high on a test, project or assignment begins to instill confidence in the young adolescent mind. The more often they achieve at a high level the greater belief (confidence) they have for similar results in the future.
The opposite is also true. If I score low on the first few attempts my belief system swings towards the negative. Comments like, “It doesn’t make a difference how long I study I still won’t get it,” or “This class is too hard for me” can be indicators that your child’s confidence is sliding.
Academics comprise only a small portion of the confidence picture. Peers have an equal if not greater effect on confidence. Self-esteem or self confidence can take a beating during the middle school years. Physical and emotional changes leave kids vulnerable.
Peer groups should offer positive support. Check in with your child. Does she talk favorably about her friends? Or is there constant drama?
How can you help?
- On the academic front, stay in continued contact with your child’s teachers. If progress stops ask how you can help. Teachers are available for extra help when students who want to achieve.
- Before self esteem becomes an issue look for people and places that will bolster confidence. After school activities and school sponsored clubs often draw kids with similar interests. Finding a supportive peer group helps to limit attacks on your child’s self esteem.
source: Joe Bruzzese’s blog at www.thinking-forward.com
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